HIV/AIDS
A Collection of Stories and Skits

    By Consuelo Chapeta, Magaly Almonte, Rosalba Torres, Mayra Villalta, Luz Maria Pinto,
    Wai Ming Chan, Guo Yi Chen, Carolina Rodriguez, Wilfredo Medrano, Fior Rosario,
    Ana Naranjo, Henry Sanchez, Qing Xiu, Altagracia Mejia.
    The authors were students
    in Lee Hewitt's Intermediate ESOL class at the Adult Learning Program of
    Jamaica Plain Community Centers,

    Funded by the Massachusetts Department of Education

 

Our Impressions of the AIDS Quilt
Luz Maria Pinto

Last week, we went to the Brigham and Women's hospital. When we got there, we saw an exposition about the AIDS quilt.

When I saw the quilt, there were names of people who had died of AIDS. The names and messages were made by family members in memory of their loved ones. I felt motivated to see the message the family members of AIDS loved ones put in the quilt. What I realized is that all the victims of this deadly virus had a different personality like any other person.

The message that gave me the most impression was a message that a mother did. It was a painting of a branch of flowers. The symbolism in this painting was that there was one flower missing, and that represented the victim.

What I learned was to inform people better and educate them about this virus.

I also learned how not to discriminate against people with AIDS and how to help them.


Fior Rosario

I think that the AIDS quilt is an interesting event and many people should have to see it because in this way people will think about AIDS. I felt very sad when I saw the parents dealing with many things from their children who died of AIDS; especially the mothers how they shared some memories of their sons and daughters. In those moments, I thought if this happened to me I don 't know how I could talk to people without crying. I think that AIDS is a strong subject that many people are scared to talk about but it is a reality.

People should know about this terrible disease especially young men and women who don't pay attention when people who know about it talk to them.


Magaly Almonte

I learned a lot of things about AIDS. I saw many activities on the quilt. The quilt was made of many pieces. It was made by mothers of those people who died. The mothers explained to us the reason why they made the AIDS quilt for them.

I felt depressed at the time when I saw the lady who helped people how they can learn about AIDS.

I think this is a good point for people to learn more about AIDS because people need to prevent AIDS. Some people don't pay attention to this problem because they think it's not important to take care of ourselves.

My advice for everybody -- don't be afraid about it. You should ask somebody if you need some help.


Qing Xiu Cui

Last Thursday we had a field trip to see the AIDS quilt. When we went to the hospital we saw the AIDS quilt. The quilt was made about many people who got AIDS and died. The quilt lets people remember them.

I felt sad because their life was short. Some of them were children. I hope someone can make medicine to cure AIDS. That will be great.

I learned that preventing AIDS is important so I think we need to be careful in our lives if we do anything. We need to think about it.


Carolina Rodriguez

I saw a quilt about people who died of AIDS. I spoke with two mothers whose sons died. Steve's mother made a beautiful quilt about her son and Tommy's mother made the quilt with some photos of her son when he was different ages. I liked their quilt pieces very much

I felt sad because I had a similar experience with my father. He died with HIV four years ago.

I learned it's very sad, but it is very important that we get education about AIDS.


Rosalba Torres

When our teacher, Lee, took us to see the AIDS quilt I thought it was good idea because I only knew about it on T.V. The difference is so big between the T.V. and real life.

I felt sad because I saw each square made by the family or friends because each square reflects the pain and love that they felt and feel for that special person.

The epidemic today is spreading everywhere and I feel that I need to learn more about it.

I'm scared that my family and young people in general may get AIDS.

I don't know what will happen in the future but now, I hope all people learn more about how to prevent HIV and AIDS.

If someone has AIDS, I would say - "Don't give up! there is hope"
-Bobbie White 1950-1991
"I pray for strength to carry the AIDS message to the younger generation
who seem to think that this can't happen to them"
- Belynda Dunn


HIV/AIDS SKITS
Introduction

We're proud to present to you the following skits about HIV/AIDS. We chose to write these stories because a lot of people don't know about this disease. Some people don't believe AIDS is real and many people are scared of HIV/AIDS.

We think people should learn about HIV/AIDS because this knowledge could save their life!


Welcome Home
by Wai Ming Chan, Consuelo Chapeta, Altagracia Mejia
Karen: My name's Karen. I live with my roommates Jenny and Maria in an apartment in Jamaica Plain. We're good friends. We help each other and share everything without any problems.

Now, I'm in the hospital. Last month I had a high temperature for a long time. The doctor asked me to come here, so he could check it out and I could relax, soon my temperature became normal.

Now I feel all right, I want to go home but the doctor told me I had to take some more tests and he suggested that I have the HIV test too and find out why I got sick like that.

Jenny and Maria come to see me everyday. Yesterday morning when I got up, I saw the doctor. He had bad news for me. was very shocked! He told me I am HIV+ . Oh! my goodness! I can't believe what I heard. I'm healthy, I'm in good shape, I have a good future.

Now, I feel down, I feel like everything is gone. I think about what happened to me all day long. I don't know what to do. I need help! I need help!

When my friends came to see me last night. I told them that I am HIV+. When they heard the news, they seemed scared. They told me "take it easy, we don't mind what happened to you, we'll help you to face it, we won't leave you alone," then they went home. But 1 don't know what they really think about me.

I'm worried. I don't know how I got it or why I got it. I don't think I've had unsafe sex and I don't use drugs. But I've just remembered I had a blood transfusion about ten years ago.

This evening I'II leave the hospital and go home. I don't know what my roommates think about me. Will they welcome me home or not? I can't live alone. I'm worried. I'm afraid. Can anybody tell me what to do?

Jenny: Maria, This evening Karen will come back home from the hospital, let's clean up the house and do something for her.
Maria: What! She's coming back this evening. Oh no! I don't want to live with her again. Tell her to find another place to live. You know, she has AIDS. If she lives with us, we'll get AIDS from her. I'm afraid. I don't want to live with her anymore.
Jenny: Probably we can't get HIV from her and if we can't help Karen, who will help her? Did you think about that? Do you know what the difference is between HIV and AIDS?
Maria: Of course I know. If people have AIDS, they will die soon. AIDS is a deadly disease, it's spreading fast in the world. I can't stand behind her. I'm worried I may get AIDS from her.
Jenny : You're confused. HIV is different from AIDS. AIDS is the final most severe stage of HIV. She's only HIV positive. It doesn't mean she has AIDS. If she keeps healthy, she may live as long as we do. HIV is a virus which breaks down the body's immune system. People die from AIDS because of the diseases and the infections they get that the body can't fight. HIV can live in people's fluids, like blood, sex fluids and breast milk and they can look and be healthy for a long time.
Maria: Is it true? I've never heard about that. How about the other things. If Karen wants to live with us. I won't touch anything that she touches or uses. Like the toilet, chairs, furniture and ...... and I don't want to touch her either.
Jenny: Why not?
Maria: She'll spread the virus! So I don't want to live with her. If she stays here, I'II move.
Jenny: You have the wrong idea. People can't get HIV by touching, hugging, toilet seats, shaking hands, kissing on the cheek, food prepared by an HIV+ person and ....... It's not passed by casual contact. So living with Karen is not a problem. You know, people only get HIV from unsafe sex, using unclean needles; also an HIV+ mother can infect her baby when she's pregnant.
Maria: Do you know how Karen got it? I know she didn't sleep around and she doesn't use drugs.
Jenny: I remember almost ten years ago, she had a blood transfusion, Maybe this is why she is HIV+. I feel sorry for her.
Maria: Me too, are you sure we won't get AIDS from her?
Jenny: Yes, I'm sure. If we are careful all the time, we won't get infected, it's no problem. If you still have any problems, let's go find a counselor together tomorrow. Now, can Karen come back here?
Maria: Tonight is no problem, but tell her to take care of everything, make sure everything she touches, she cleans; and tomorrow, we're going to meet a counselor.
Jenny: I'm glad you said that. Karen lives in this city alone, we're her best friends, we have to help her.
Maria: If she won't spread AIDS to me, I'm going to help her too.


Karen: Hello, Jenny, Maria. I'm home now.
Jenny & Maria: Welcome home!
Karen: I'm very happy that you don't mind that I'm HIV+.
Jenny: We don't mind. Tomorrow we'll go to the counselor, talk about our future and how to take care of you.
Maria: I'm still confused but I can help you too.
Karen: Thank you.
Jenny: Karen, don't worry. Maria and I will help you take care of yourself because we love you.
Maria: Yes, don't worry.


Questions about the skit

1. How did Karen get HIV?

2. How did Karen feel when the doctor told her that she was H IV+?

3 What things do Maria and Jenny do to help Karen?

4. Why is Maria worried about living with Karen?

5. Where can Maria, Jenny and Karen get help?

6. Why does Maria want to avoid Karen?

7. Why did Maria think that Karen had sex with a man?

8. Did Karen use drugs?

9. How did Karen feel when she returned home from the hospital?

10. When did Karen find out that she was HIV+?

11. How did Karen's roommates feel when they heard that she is HIV+?

12. Do you think that Maria wants to help Karen? Why or why not?

13. Why did Karen take the HIV test?

14. What should Karen do to help herself live longer?

15. What do you think about HIV?

16. If you have a friend who is HIV+, what do you do?


Parents are the Key to Teaching Their Teenagers to Prevent HIV/AIDS
by Carolina Rodriguez, Luz Maria Pinto, Mayra Pocasangre,
and Qing Xiu

Characters:  John, a boy; Patricia, his sister; Mary, their mother; and Peter, their father


Narrator: Mary is cooking and her daughter is watching T.V. The phone rings and Patricia answers it.
Patricia: Hi! How are you doing?
I'm fine.
Oh my goodness! I can't believe it. How did you get it?
I'm sorry.
O.K. I'11 see you tomorrow.


(Patricia is crying for her friend)

Mary: What's the matter? Why are you crying?
Patricia: Jenny called me and told me, that she got AIDS (crying) She's my best friend and she's going to die.
Mary: Take it easy! It's terrible! but don't worry! Because maybe she's HIV positive and that doesn't mean that she's going to die soon! Listen to me! HIV positive is a virus and AIDS is a disease.

(John comes into the room. He's listening to music and dancing.)

John: What's the matter? Did your boyfriend dump you?
Patricia: Get out of here!
Mary: Don't go!
Sit down with us. We're talking about something important for you too.
John: What?
Mary: We're talking about AIDS.
John: Don't bother me! That's not going to happen to me.

(Peter, their father, comes in from work.)

Peter: Hi everybody. I'm tired. What's happening?
Mary: Patricia's friend called and told her that she got AIDS and I want to explain to them how to prevent it. And John doesn't want to listen.

(John continues to listen to the music.)

Peter: Listen to me my son. It's important that you know everything about HIV/AIDS because maybe you have been hearing a lot about it but you don't understand everything. Your mother and I want to explain everything about how you can prevent HIV/AIDS and protect yourselves. Come on!

(John now begins to listen.)

John: Okay. Tell me!
Mother: Many people around the world have AIDS. Both men and women can get it. Sometimes children get AIDS too. Many people have died from AIDS. It's a disease. Maybe Patricia's friend has a virus. It's called HIV Positive.
John: What's the difference between HIV Positive and AIDS?
Peter: Okay. The HIV virus is very tiny. We cannot see it. It lives inside the human body. HIV is in the blood; it's in the semen; it's in the fluid in the vagina. Some people with HIV get sicker and sicker and they develop AIDS.
John: How long does it take HIV to become AIDS?
Peter: It usually takes two to ten years or longer.
John: How do people get HIV?
Mary: People can get HIV in different ways: when they have sex with an infected person; when they share needles with an infected person or an HIV positive woman who is pregnant can give it to her baby.
Patricia: What are the symptoms of infection?
Peter: The symptoms are many, like: diarrhea; a bad cough; sores; headaches; fever; weight loss; feeling tired all the time.
John: Oh I know! When people have any type of sex and one of the partners has HIV and they don't use a latex condom and nonoxynol 9 they can get infected from one to the other.
Mary: You're right! Also, people can get HIV when they share needles to take drugs. In the needles there is always some blood with the virus in it. Also people should take care about blood transfusions.

Remember, alcohol is a drug too because you feel high and you don't know what you're doing.

Peter: Do you know how to protect yourselves?
John: I know something about it.
Patricia: But I would like to know more about it.
Mary: People can decide not to have sex, or when people have sex they can use a latex condom and nonoxynol 9.
Patricia: Also people should never share needles if they do drugs.
Peter: We can help to prevent AIDS in three ways: we can learn about it and help Patricia's friend; we can tell other people about what we've learned; and we can protect ourselves and others.
John: Oh! now I have changed my mind and I can take care of myself!
Patricia: I feel sorry for Jenny. If her parents told her something about it she might healthy now.
Mary: I'm pleased because you take our advice. Remember your parents are always here to help you.
Peter: It's important to have good communication and stay together, don't you think?


Questions

1. What happened to Patricia's friend?

2. Who is HIV positive?

3. What was John's attitude at the end of the story?

4. Do you think Patricia will avoid her friend because she has HIV/AIDS?

5. What do you do if you have a friend with HIV/AIDS?

6. Why do you think it's important for parents to talk with their teenagers?


It's Never Too Late To Learn
by Rosalba Torres, Magaly Almonte and Guo Yi Chin
Narrator: At the cafeteria, after many weeks, Ann and Mary have a chance to meet again. Ann is formal and polite, Mary is funny and friendly. Ann is Mexican and Mary is Dominican. They have known each other for two years. They met at a birthday party for their friend. They are best friends because they like each other and they trust each other.
Ann: Hi Mary! How are you? I'm so glad to see you again! Would you like something to drink?
Mary: Sure, I want some coffee, please. It's been a long time since the last time we saw each other, I 've been thinking about you a lot.
Ann: My life hasn't changed that much you know, working as usual and still taking classes every thursday night at the University, and what about you? The last time I saw you, you told me that you were about to get married, what happened? Tell me, I'm very curious.
Mary: I'm not so sure about that any more. You know, I have something to tell you ; I just met a handsome guy. His name is Peter, he's great. I can't explain the way he is. He's so special. I've been thinking that he probably can give me things that Tom, my boyfriend can't. He's my ideal man. He likes to go dancing, he's more open minded.
Ann: Well, this is really a surprise! But tell me, do you know him well? Do you know where he comes from? His values, his family?
Mary: I don't think it's necessary to know all that because I just want to live in the moment.
Ann: Mary, can I ask you a personal question?
Mary: Sure, you're my best friend.
Ann: Have you had sex with him?
Mary: Well ...... Yes, but just once!
Ann: What about protection? Did you use a condom?
Mary: A condom? What are you talking about? I didn't think I needed to use a condom, he didn't look sick to me, and besides he's a very athletic man.
Ann: It doesn't matter if he looks sick or not; if you put yourself at risk, you could get AIDS. People can have the HIV virus and not look sick! If you don't believe that, you're kidding yourself.
Mary: I only had sex once. I don't think it's a big deal, don't worry.
Ann: I don't think you have enough information about deadly diseases like AIDS and more than 30 sexually transmitted diseases.
Mary: Can you tell me where can I get information about sexually transmitted diseases?
Ann: You can get information from the medical news, T.V., books, magazines and clinics. If you want, we could go together to get this information.
Mary: Great! I don't like to go alone.
Ann: Now, could you imagine if your boyfriend knew you were having an affair? What if you have a sexually transmitted disease because of your affair?
Mary: Oh my goodness! Ann, I didn't think about the consequences of having unprotected sex! How can I find out if I am HIV positive or negative?
Ann: Mary, you need to find out what the test results are before you worry !
Mary: What test?
Ann: There's a blood test called ELISA. It will show whether or not you have the HIV virus.
Mary: Where can I take this test?
Ann: First, you need to speak with a nurse or a doctor, or you could call an AIDS hotline to find out where testing sites are.
Mary: How much money do I have to pay?
Ann: It's free.
Mary: I don't want anyone to know that I'm having this test done. Do I have to give my name? What if my fiance finds out?
Ann: We'll need to ask around. Some places guarantee anonymity, some places don't.
Mary: How soon can I get the results?

I think it takes a few weeks, but you'll have to ask the people who will give you the test to be sure.

Mary: Thanks a lot Ann for listening to me.
Narrator: After Mary took the HIV test, they met again.
Ann: Hello Mary! I've been worried about you, What happened?
Mary: Everything's fine! My test came out negative, thank God!
Ann: Oh great, Mary! and about your boyfriend, what happened?
Mary: Well ...... I talked with him a lot and I told the truth about my affair, the test, and my feelings; he was very angry but after that, he understood that nobody is perfect and sometimes people make mistakes.
Ann: What about the wedding?
Mary: We decided to postpone it until we're sure about our relationship, and about Peter -- that it's over. I believe it was just an illusion because I wanted to see things in him that my boyfriend didn't have. Peter was a very liberal person and never took things seriously, and Tom is a very respectful man, he loves me very much. I was confused but now I realize Tom is the right guy.
Ann: I'm happy for you Mary, and I hope this experience has a positive impact in your life. Now we have to celebrate this news.


Questions

1. Where did Ann and Mary meet?

2. Why didn't Mary get married?

3. Why did Mary want to take the HIV test?

4. What is the name of the HIV test?

5. Where could Mary get information about HIV?

6. Why is it Important to know about safe sex?

7. How do you practice safe sex completely to protect your life?

8. What do you think about this story?


Parents Talking to Little Children About AIDS
Ages 7 and 9
by Wilfredo Medrano, Ana Naranjo, Fior Rosario and Henry Sanchez

Children: Hi, Mom. Hi, Mom.
Mother: Hi, kids. How was school today?
Daughter: Oh it was fine, but I heard something in the school from other kids?
Mother: What was it?
Daughter: It was about AIDS. And I don't know what it means.
Son: Oh, yes. I heard something about AIDS too.
Mother: O.K., Will and Fior. This is a very serious subject and your father and I will explain it to you when he gets home.
Son: Mom, Why don't you explain it now?

The father comes in:

Father: Hi, honey. How are you doing?
Mother: Hi, dear. How was your day at work today?
Father: Oh, it was a very long day. I'm tired.
Mother: Why don't you sit down honey? We have to talk.
Father: Talk? Talk about what? I haven't done anything wrong lately.
Mother: No. It's about the kids.
Father: The kids? What's wrong with them?
Mother: Oh, they heard something about AIDS at school from other kids. I think we have to explain it to them.
Father: Kids, Come here, we want to talk to you.
Daughter: Dad, What's AIDS?
Father: AIDS is a very serious disease that can make a person very sick and kill them by making them weak and vulnerable to any other diseases.
Daughter: Can people with AIDS get well?
Mother: No - - not once a person gets AIDS. Some of them can be sick for a long time; in the end they will die.
Son: Why is AIDS so dangerous?
Mother: Because AIDS kills people. That's the reason why you have to stay away from people's blood because the virus lives in the blood.
Son: Daddy, Can I play with a friend with AIDS?
Father: Of course you can play with a friend with AIDS. You just have to stay away from blood in case somebody gets a cut.
Daughter: Where did AIDS come from?
Mother: It's very difficult to know that. Some people think it came from Africa.
Son: Is there any medicine for AIDS?
Mother: There are medicines that help people with AIDS feel better and live longer. But there's no medicine that cures AIDS yet.
Daughter: Daddy, daddy. I want to go to the park.
Son: Me too!
Father: Oh, come on kids! I'm too tired.
Mother: It's Okay honey, I understand. I know you're tired. I'11 take the kids to the park. Let's go!


Questions

1. Why is it important to talk to kids about AIDS?

2. Should parents tell their little kids everything about AIDS?

3. Is it good for little kids to learn about sex and drugs?

4. Can little kids have friends infected with the HIV virus?

5 Can parents with AIDS take care of their children?


A Note to Teachers
By Lee Hewitt

This collection of writings about HIV/AIDS was produced by the students in my Intermediate ESL class in the Adult Learning Program at the Jamaica Plain Community Center in Jamaica Plain, MA.

HIV/AIDS is a serious health problem in our neighborhoods and a serious health concern for all of us. The students in my class were very vocal about wanting to learn more about this disease. I found out about a display of the AIDS quilt at Brigham and Women's Hospital from an HIV/AIDS educator at our local health clinic and organized a field trip to this event. The stories about this field trip speak to the power of this event for all of us who went. This field trip was the starting point of our exploration of HIV/AIDS.

Our exploration of HIV/AIDS included many activities. Fortunately the design of our health grant allowed time to plan, preview and discuss ideas among the ESL teachers with our student liaisons in our weekly health team meetings. We previewed materials from the HIV/AIDS Resource Kit developed by Andy Nash and Laurie Copan which was available from the Adult Literacy Resource Institute, in Boston.  It was a rich supply of materials and ideas for our classroom. Also it was an opportunity to talk about what we knew about HIV/AIDS and what our concerns were in the classroom. This kind of planning and discussion time is invaluable I believe when approaching a weighty topic such as HIV/AIDS.

In my intermediate class, we generated questions we had about this disease , watched movies, listened to recordings, looked at posters and educational brochures . Another great resource was the pamphlet put out by TESOL called Atlanta AIDS Education Education Special Issue. It is simple and straightforward. Both our basic and intermediate ESL students found this pamphlet very accessible and informative.

I encouraged students to look for advertisements about HIV/AIDS prevention on the train, on TV and in their neighborhoods. Students started to bring me copies of brochures that they picked up at their clinics and copies of articles about HIV/AIDS that they read in the newspaper.

I invited a local HIV/AIDS educator to come and talk to my class. I sent her the list of questions that my students had generated as a way to give the educator a sense of what was on our minds. One of my students had also recently trained as an HIV/AIDS Health Educator at a local clinic and she presented an educational workshop in Spanish to the basic ESL class. We found that first language presentations on this material was important not only to ensure comprehension but just as importantly to ensure that students would be able to ask whatever questions they had on their minds without struggling with the language.

As a culmination to all this work, the students prepared skits on topics that concerned them about HIV/AIDS. Two of the skits are on parents communicating with their children about HIV/AIDS. Most of my students are parents and they were very concerned about this responsibility.  (A good background reading about talking with children about HIV/AIDS was a chapter in AIDS , a book from the FYI series available from New Reader's Press.) One of the students had a friend with AIDS and she had shared how she felt nervous hugging her friend. By the end of our exploration of HIV/AIDS, she felt comfortable touching this person. She was a writer/participant in the "Welcome Home" skit. The students learned a lot of facts about HIV/AIDS and they became comfortable talking about it. It is interesting to me because their skits all demonstrate situations in which vital health information is being communicated in order to help someone make healthier choices.

I helped the students organize their ideas for their skits by brainstorming about the characters, the problem and the messages that they wanted to have in their skits. We listened to "I've Got AIDS" on the Salt N'Pepa tape, Very Necessary.  This is a skit between a young woman and her boyfriend about AIDS. It's powerful. It's a challenging listening exercise and an example of an educational skit developed for a young adult audience.

Also I gave them some guidelines. Their skits had to reflect accurate information about HIV/AIDS, be grammatically correct, and the use of idioms was encouraged. I gave them time in class to write, practice and make group decisions about their skits. I worked with each group on their presentation and pronunciation. Each group decided on props that they would need.

Developing skits can be a long process; however, feedback from my students convinces me of the many values of this kind of activity.

We invited other students in the school to our skits and we had an Educational HIV/AIDS Skit Party that included the presentation of the skits as well as distribution of educational health brochures that we collected from the local clinic. Also the student who was an HIV/AIDS educator passed out condoms and buttons. The finale was a singing with actors and audience of the song " That's What Friends Are For" , a lovely song about friendship and caring that is often sung at the end of the AIDS Walk in Boston. It was a dynamic presentation. I acted as the videotaper and I' m happy to say that in our class that tape is on the best seller list ! It has been borrowed by every student and shown to every family.


Last updated May 30, 1998 by David J. Rosen